Pina Colada

3 oz light rum
3 tbsp coconut milk
3 tbsp crushed pineapples

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Method:

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Put all ingredients into an electric blender with 2 cups of  crushed ice. Blend at a high speed for a short length of time. Strain into a collins glass and serve with a straw.

“Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. They find themselves disappointed by people, events , reality, which cannot match their youthful ideals. Ideal lovers thrive on people’s broken dreams, which become lifelong fantasies. You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The ideal lover reflects your fantasy.”

“-In a world of disenchantment and baseness, there is limitless seductive power in following the path of the Ideal Lover.”

Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction

Realists, surrealists, rationalists; they all have an inner ideal they wish were fulfilled. People most often seek this ideal in another person. Have you ever heard someone rant on about whoever they think to be their perfect lover? First comes the good looks, then follows the tall order of characteristic traits; has to be smart, sensitive, strong, yada yada yada.

Always remember that looks hardly matter if you seem to pocess what they REALLY want. Notice the slight sigh that escapes her lips at the mention of adventure, the tone of her voice on a subject. These are the subtle signs you should look for, be all that they lack in life, a symbol of their dreams coming true. If they were with YOU, they could have everything they secretly ever desired.

Am I making sense here?

In order to play the ideal lover needs patience and attention to detail, you are tailoring your love for one person. Care only for what they want. In a world of self absorbed individuals, it is very hard to play the Ideal Lover, which is why in this day and age it is a rare and valued quality one may posess if one follows this path. “your all I ever wanted!” Heard that line before? Then your probably doing something right

It’s never about the sex, or at least it seems that way. A womans ideal is most probably a gentlemen, whereas a mans ideal would most probably be the madonna of all their sexual fantasies.

Nothing is more seductive than patient attentiveness.